my daughter!
hey i discoverd to day..i became a father to a daughter. all of a sudden my life has taken a new direction. sdeenly i felt little sad..that there is another new resposibility..on me. becoz now i had to find a bridegroom and a fat cheque to get her marry. if it is a son i dont think i need to find such a hing..infact he brings some money..with him.ofcourse whether i chose that type of situation or not ,it is different..at least, i be burden of any resposibility..
and there is this saying..that only son can save me from punnaga hell.[which is funny].and he takes care of me in the old age.i even blamed god for this.becoa it is always his creation...nothing more. he is piling on all the resposibilities..and enjoying all this.
but later after a close look into the matter...i discovered..that...it is actually reverse!. becoz for a daughter there is no expectation from the society...all that requires is just be a good daddy's daughter..and nothing more.but for a son it is lot difficult..becoz not only he needs to prove to the whole world ..that is he is man enough but also he should carry all the burdens of family and region or community..and hell a lot.and there is no guarantee about..punnaga hell or taking care in the old age..they can be met even with daughter!
so all i know now is the way is clear..i need to find a way to accumulate enough money for my daughter's wedding..and for groom.so if i would reach that..no more tensions..of meeting any expectations....thank you very much....mr god. its all yours!